When its time, the hub, or bf comes along with me.

I had wanted Ron to coach the family unit on emotional intelligence, but he proposed that us as a couple come in first, the reason was that kids these days are so evolved and it wouldn’t take them long to see things.

But we as parents, might not be armed with adequate tools to support them.

Thankfully the hub or bf is open to this session.

I left it to the divine when I suggested this, I really just left it with the divine and spent no effort contesting this in any way.

He said yes.

Need I experiment anymore with manifestation? . And the idea was to hold the the thought so light. So light And leave it to up there.

And it came real fast.

We were in Ron’s office yesterday. And he explained to the hub what why and how.

We started with this powerful exercise, Ron asked me to vent my frustrations while getting the hub to hold the space at a certain frequency.

Amazingly, I found some difficulty at complaining as he moved down the list.

We did the experiment in reverse and it worked too. He just couldnt complain once I started to be in the higher mode of being.

And this made me understand that at a higher state of frequency, things which used to exist simply didn’t anymore. They simply cant (manifest) at a certain level up high.

Unless you bring yourself back to the low which the original problem exist.

This is really powerful learning.

“When you level up, your boss cannot even come near you. Problems cant come near. They simply don’t exist because you are at such a high.”

And can we theoretically hold ourselves at a continuous high?

“You got my answer right. For us to maintain equilibrium, just love your wife, your children. It is just like that, so how difficult is it? The thing is when you cut yourself off from them, you don’t feel empowered because you no longer stay in the frequency of love, or in the unlimited resources of we and everything spirals down. Stay in the connection with your wife both level up and that can hold the space for the kids for the family”

The beauty is that he managed to open up further and went on to sort out stories about his beliefs on money and how those beliefs have been wrongfully tied to events that have happened to him as a child.

He could see why he turned out the way he did and that all these belonged not to him!

More so, he could now see why he was so frustrated each time Huaihao cried or triggered him. And he could see that this all had nothing to do with Huaihao or the kids but all the limiting beliefs and stories he carried on himself and the child is just lighting the path for him.

This to me is priceless.