Its been a long time since I left to be on my own–well in a way. 3 years in covid and we were together everyday. But got the kids’ and bf’s approval and went for the swiss london trip with dad and sis.

And bf took care of the kids, or was it, the other way around? Huaihao did raindrop for qinzhi every alternate night and for the daddy. Qinzhi did the life 9 service for dad and hao. The kids folded there own clothes went out for their own meals

Throughout the trip, Qinzhi was connecting with me on WhatsApp and the social media platforms, and 2 weeks went past and I am back.

Coming back to routine walks and going to the temple. Is for me—— a newfound contentment.

To come back. Is an opportunity to make even better.

Then the walks have to be accompanied by meals the kids wanted such as a big pizza,

At night, I started heading into the dome with qinzhi and we spoke about almost anything and everything. Like a good wind down talk for bed. And we both enjoyed it.

Qinzhi always wanted more and asked: “ can you talk to me? “

She obviously loves the company the attention and wants more but it’s late and sleep is important so we continue the next day .

And its been a while since Qinzhi has a hair cut, these days she’s no longer overwhelmed by the getting into a hair salon and that is a great feat. The stylist chopped off her tresses and she looked so refreshed, the thing is—she’s also happy at her new look! And that is great.

And the three of us, when we get together, we always pig out

Qinzhi’s so grown up now, i wonder where the time has gone to, during the school holidays, she wanted to meet up with her primary school classmates and I took her. She spent some time in the mall with her friends then I took her back. It will be very soon that she takes off and fly but I know and trust she will be well.

If I can do it, Qinzhi can do it better than me a million times over. Thank you Qinzhi for teaching me trust and letting go, I love you SO VERY MUCH!